I love him for who he is. I want to be enjoying the fruits of my labor with the one I love in my 30s or 40s. It is likely that he is married with wife and a son, and doesn't want his wife to find out. Because I had no children from my first marriage, I felt that I would not have the challenges others do. All the things you listed here are subjective. Hi Wendy, it sounds like he is not able to trust you, which is weird because you guys have been dating for about six months now, and he wants you to move in with him.
As such, that scare tactic sentence is Trumpian in its falseness.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating someone older than you
There isn't a woman on this planet that could take me away from her, and she knows it. She found and pursued me. I couldn't tell him i don't love him anymore because he was taking care of my needs and wanted to sponsor my musical career above that i didnt want my son to grow up like me without a father. Young men lie a lot. He was wise and so was I.